DumDum* has been complaining about his beloved gf for the longest time... nearly a year to be exact....He can describe his gf as the world's worst gf... He is unhappy about almost every single intolerable behaviour that he cringed about... He felt used.. taken advantage of... Been complaining that his beloved gf has been a big huge bratty princess who wants everything her way...
he felt unappreciated..... one moment he can tell me he is bent on a break up.. the nest moment... he is like head over heels again over her... he can whine to me about watever nonsensical things that she has done to him.. He whines about how his gf enjoyed other guy's company..... he complains about how popular his girl is with guys...
from the looks of the entire situation... i would classify him as a mental case.. he has dual personality.. one who loves his gf to bits..the other who hates his gf to bits..
he is suffering alot i would say........ i tot relationships help you grow for the better and not worse.... well... he becomes more and more depressed each day.... since day one of his relationship.. he told me that his gf would love to marry a rich guy.. oh come on! which girl doesnt want some rich handsome suave dude to scoop them off their feet? Becos of this... he is very uptight about getting a car...getting a house... when he lost his job.. he was a near manic case.... he worries about finding a job..he worries about his finances.. he worries his gf gets picked up by a more successful guy....
almost everytime i tok to him.. he is bent to get a break up......... sometimes i wonder if its worth holding on......
watever it is... i realised something
a person can say drastically horrible and unpleasant things about their other half to the point that it makes their other half sound as tho they are the biggest scumbags of the entire universe... but still run back to the side of their other half AFTER u have managed to dry tat person's tears and get that person up on their feet...
this person can cry as tho theres no longer a tomorrow in existence and on the verge of saying good bye to every single living being on this earth with absolutely no will to live on to the point that it makes u feel that this other half is nothing but the greatest bitch/bastard who shld do a favour for the entire world by dropping dead right now...... but this person will still run back to the side of their other half AFTER u spent hours lending a shoulder and fretting over what words to use or actions to make this person feel better....
the entire social world that person know of can tell tat person his gf is no longer worth it.. but still nothing changes...
Needless to say..... everything happens in a cycle.... after u get that person back up on their feet..they go back to that other half...gets hurt..comes back to you.. u get that person up on the feet AGain.. and they go back to the other half.. gets hurt..
u see.. its a cycle... and i would say.. somehow given up.... he chooses the way he wants to live.. i dont care anymore.. he has to learn the hard way.