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Friday, March 20, 2009Y



Affairs of the heart are forever a subject that never been understood.... A couple whom i know of had been dating for 3-4 years.. And recently they just broke up.... She decided to part ways...

I believe the guy who just got dumped must be deeply depressed.... All along in this relationship, he had marriage in mind..U can see that he put in effort to provide for his girl, now ex. Just imagine this.... u were enjoying ur days with her and the break up came soooo unexpectedly...

its soo devastating... And i wonder how well he is taking the break up... Its really sad... Being dumped is not a very pleasant experience... And.. feelings dont change over night.. When someone has the intentions to dump you, tis person would have already been thinking of dumping u for some time already... Ive never dumped any guy before..so i cnt understand what that "dumper" is going through...

Her expectations of a relationship and him changed over the years... Tis is something that i can understand... Our mentalities and the way we perceive things may change over time... Change is ever a constant.. This is why.. in a relationship..u either grow apart or close together.. The best is grow with each other...

Somehow in the relationship.. they have reached a point where she felt that he could no longer give her what she wants.... She wasnt really upset over the break up.. Probably she already knows wat she wants .. and she already know who can give her wat she wants... And..from what i observe is.... usually the one who dumped the other party recovers faster than the dumped person....

He has no flaws... they appeared "happy" all the while... but theres something he lacks of... ... In her eyes...He doesnt earn alot..... He cant provide her with the life she wants.....she met another who can give her just that.... sigh..

no right no wrong...if she doesnt love him anymore... its sitll better to let him go and allow him to find a more suitable person....

ive nothing to say.. its just that i felt the entire relationship is a waste... what a pity..as i felt he was a nice chap who is reliable and responsible... oh well..

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