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Monday, February 16, 2009Y

Just some thoughts to ponder over...

Valentines day was over... somehow this occassion triggered some thoughts in me..

Who doesnt wished to be loved?

Singles who are desperately looking for love..often cldnt find it.... Those attached who are together for a couple of years... often take things for granted....Those married for many many years... may wonder where love went...


i guess the best way to deal with things is... always to be appreciative of what u already have.... If u just cldnt find a bf/gf, it doesnt mean u are finished... Learn to love wat u already have.. like for example, be grateful that u have frens ... be happy that ur parents are still around...

Sometimes when u are together for sometime, u tend to take the things your other half does for you for granted... its common.. For an instance, he always queue that bloody long queue just becos u are dying to eat that char kway tiao or she always make u a honey drink when ur throat feels funny or he shows up unexpectedly at ur work place with flowers on ur gloomy days to cheer u up...

Even towards our family and frens... we could well be taking them for granted... Dinner is always on the table when we are home... The clothes are always washed and ironed... Your frens rushing down to your side when u needed them... You have the company of ur fren to go shopping with you.. You have someone to accompany u to the movies...

all these simple acts can sometimes turn into an expectation of what he or she should do... Once in awhile when such acts wont performed.. u get disappointed...upset... then some conflicts will happen......

Well.. i do take things for granted sometimes.. and there are times when pple took me for granted before.... Very oftenly, a simple sign of appreciate from us towards those who are always giving to us can make a big difference.. Always be appreciate of what pple has given to you... And show them that u appreciate it...

You know.. people do count.... Anyone who felt being taken granted of constantly by you will just one day forgo that relationship with you when their strings snapped... U do want to feel appreciated for the things u have done for someone (other half or family or fren) at the end of day, right?

Its quite a pity when a frenship or relationship has to snap just becos u didnt know how to appreciate him or her and he or she doesnt know how to appreciate you.. it works both ways..

Starting from today..say thank you for the things pple in your life do for you..... Communicate ur gratitude...

Being with ur other half means that u appreciate what he has done for you.. and he appreciates u just as well.. Never keep looking at the things that he doesnt have or keep focusing on his flaws..

If u love him... accept him as a whole.. Some pple whom ive spoken to are always comparing hteir other halves to another person... Some wishing their bfs would earn more..Some wishing their bfs to own a penthouse...

Nothing wrong with wishing.. I mean... Which girl doesnt want to marry a super rich guy who will love them to bits?? I must admit...girls can be materialistic sometimes... which girl doesnt want to be pampered by their bfs?? Which girl doesnt want to have a "tai tai" life??

But constant comparison might just dampen his confidence and u might get carried away into ur own wishing fantasy...

If u love him..be happy with what u have....Work together with him to accomplish what u both want ...







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