A word called "Love"A simple word that either brings u joy or sorrow... A simple word that either brings u together or brings u apart...I have been having a lot of thoughts recently... I understand my frens are going through a bad patch right now... somehow brings me some bitter sweet memories as well... I wonder what is more painful... Loving each other yet cant be together becos of own personal beliefs ?orA relationship that spiral into whirls of pain becos of the lack of proper communication ?or Holding on to a person who will never love u back no matter how much u try to woo her over the years.. ?orLoving someone yet you cant let that person know at all... You dont wish to spoil the current BGR tat person has...orYou truly love someone but u dont have the courage and so called "qualities" to woo that person.. basically no confidence in urself and relationships...When it comes to love... theres never a right or wrong... In life.. there is no gurantee that a certain person will be with u from the start to the end... Meeting and parting is just part and parcel of life.... the same thing applies to family, friends, colleagues.. band mates.... In the game of love... theres never a rule or condition that states that u will not get hurt... The moment u fall for someone... u have already put ur position on the tendency and likelihood of getting hurt... A story to share緣
緣 (一則佛教故事)
從前有個書生, 和未婚妻約好在某年某月某日結婚.
到那一天,未婚妻卻嫁給了別人. 書生受此打擊, 一病不起.
家人用盡各種辦法都無能為力, 眼看奄奄一息.
這時, 路過一游方僧人, 得知情況, 決定點化一下他.
僧人到他床前, 從懷裡摸出一面鏡子叫書生看.
書生看到茫茫大海,一名遇害的女子一絲不掛地躺在海灘上.
路過一人, 看一眼, 搖搖頭, 走了
又路過一人, 將衣服脫下, 給女屍蓋上, 走了
再路過一人, 過去, 挖個坑,小心翼翼把屍體掩埋了
疑惑間, 畫面切換. 書生看到自己的未婚妻. 洞房花燭,
被她丈夫掀起蓋頭的瞬間
書生不明所以.
僧人解釋道, 那具海灘上的女屍, 就是你未婚妻的前世.
你是第2個路過的人, 曾給過他一件衣服.
她今生和你相戀,只為還你一個情.
但是她最終要報答一生一世的人,是最後那個把她掩埋的人,那人就是他現在的丈夫.
書生大悟, 唰地從床上做起, 病癒 !
幾年前, 初戀的愛人去世時, 我痛不欲生.
有朋友就找來這故事開導我,讓我釋懷不少.
也許, 她來到這個世界上,就是為了還我一片情吧
她做完了她想做的事, 就走了.
以後,我都用這個故事開導身邊的朋友.
緣這個東西, 是最不可思議的.
電影'不見不散'的主題歌這樣唱道:
'這世界說大就大,說小就小.
就算是我們今生的約定, 也要用一生去尋找....'>
緣分這東西不可強求. 該你的, 早晚是你的:
不該你的,怎麼努力,也得不到.
但無論任何時候, 我們都不要絕望.
不要放棄自己對真, 善, 美的愛情追求
人生的價值, 在某種意義上講, 就是愛和被愛的成熟.
當真愛來臨, 如果也就成熟了.
隨緣
隨意
隨遇
隨喜..........
~*~Panda~*~
