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Thursday, May 22, 2008Y

Cause and effect?

Alrites.. im gona sound like a bitch here.. anyways... i shall continue...

some time back... she called... well tat she is my dad's sister..... she was asking why didnt my sister bring her bb over to her place.... Her question made me laugh.. Ok.. its a hard cold fact that both me n my sis dont like to go over to her place. Well she stays with my dad's older brother... frankly and honestly.. me n my sis dont like going over la... so obviously.. we wont even think of heading down to tat place unless its CNY..

alrites..i didnt reply her directly..i got my mum to speak to her... My mum asked if we cld visit.. i just told her... if she wants..she can go by herself by all means... i told her tat ive no intentions on going down and i gurantee tat my sis wont wanna go as well... true enough... my sis didnt wanna go oso...

yeaps... and so my mama said that like that.. no more relatives liao lor... ermx... like i care?

and i told my mum straight... its their own retribution...zi zhuo nie... cant be helped...

then my mum said," then u shld blame me cos i didnt bring u all over often...tats why no feelings"

then i told her.. "even if u want to bring me over when i was younger.. i wont even want to go"

now heres the history..

since the day i can remember things.. i never liked visiting my dad's extended family... the whole visit there is often unpleasant in my memories.. that place is often hot and stuffy.. nothing to play with.. nothing to do except stare at the television programme tat is not chosen by me...

throughout my life there.... i saw how nasty my dad's mummy was to my mama... always kana yelled at by my dad's mummy....... the entire whole family over there favours BOYS.. my dad's younger bro had 3 sons... cool huh? and so they are priority lor...ok.. im a girl..obviously.. i dont get any privileges.. but tat doesnt matter to me anyway... tat whole place n memory just stinks in my mind...

dad's mummy left us like 4 yrs back... i didnt drop a tear...basically no feelings.. through out the funeral.. i saw the karma tat befall on her... she didnt treat my family tat well.. didnt treat my dad's older bro family well... .. she loved tat all BOYS family soo much..

guess wat.... none of the BOYS were at her funeral for the first 3 days.. and where were they??? oh.. holidaying at some chalet lors... those BOYS enjoyed their holiday while we faithfully carried out the basic duties tat family members shld do during a furneral... irony of life..

ever since the death of dad's mummy... we seldom go up to tat place..only during cny...

and then some time last yr... the all BOYS' dad passed away... the sad thing is.. none of his sons or his wife wants to pray to him at home... its like a chinese tradition for a wife to bring her dead husband home to pray... dont understand wats wrong.. but it just dont seem right..

subsequently... all boy's widowed mother gradually stopped having interactions with dad's extended family.. basically.. she doesnt like tat place either.. u see..... all of the 3 sons' wives dont like tat place....

ok..tats the history.. basically no one likes tat place la.... i will only go if im pressured to.. else...lalalalalalalala....

im quite an evil person....

Thursday, May 22, 2008 Photobucket