Hasnt it occured to u that u have taken things for granted, especially to your loved ones or friends or the surroundings? Things only get their importance the moment they are lost...
Things like
Food being laid on the table during dinner time....
someone who washed and ironed your clothes for the next day...
companions who accompanied you during your school breaks
the floor at home has been swept and mopped...
air conditioned shopping centres...
bus or mrt transports.. ( not entirely flawless system..but still gets u to your destination..)
family members who helps u without battering an eyelid..
for those who are attached.. an other half who shares ur joys n burdens with...
well..and many more...
Life is fragile... There is no gurantee in life that gurantees that this person will never leave you... Theres no gurantee in life that this person will be there for you till u are on your death bed... That person might leave u for natural reasons like illness or dead..or they chose to leave you... or u indirectly make them leave u...
Cherish the person next to you.... What u have now is the present.....
Learn to be happy with the little things around you...
Arguements or conflicts or disagreements are inevitable... but these wont get you anywhere... learn to deal with negative feelings...
u must be wondering why im saying these... Dont worry..Nothing big has happened to me..
Uncle big's dad accident made me think about t hese... (his dad is stable now even tho he is in ICU)
Currently in my own life.. ive my own expectations... somehow conflicting ones... contradicting ones... sometimes it lead me to throw tantrums on poor uncle big.. Now thinking back...it wasnt worth throwing tantrums at all..
somehow gave up slimming down yet again... ive been walking more... i took initiative to climb the stairs even though when im not heading out... i used the u-zap... my tummy didnt show much changes... only my thighs.. the cellulites has reduced a little.... Im at the normal BMI range... somehow i was aiming to reach the lowest point of the normal BMI range or even lower.. zzz....