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Friday, November 23, 2007Y

Things that can never be understood...

He showered tender loving care. They loved and dated for more than 7 yrs. Both were envied as model couple. They had their customary wedding last yr. On tat wedding day, he told her that it was his happiest day of his life.Their flat arrived. A newborn baby on the way... Everything seems joyous... then things took a certain turn....

He left her..leaving her and their soon to be born baby girl...

How can a few years of relationship shatter into pieces just after a few weeks of getting to know someone new? You mean a few years of memories and all the thick and thin that u both have gone through are worthless?

I really wonder....

Ive heard numerous break up involving 3rd party cases of couples who dated for several yrs and are known for lovey doveys. I somehow really question the word "love".

Heres a couple of cases..

(1) They dated for more than 3 yrs. Guy just told girl that all this while he only treated her as his sister and he wants to break up with her. Girl was upset. Guy never responded to any of girl's calls and smses subsequently. Girl thinks guy under many stress cos guy now exam period. Girl still waiting for guy to return to her. Girl wants to wait till exam over then try to work things out again. Guy is around 27-28 yr old... girl is only 20.

My view : wat a lame reason for a break up.... if its 3 yrs ago, he wld be around 24 or 25.. considering that he has gone through ns.. i guess he is still very immature...

(2) Guy and girl dated for more htan 5 yrs since their secondary school days. Went through their poorest days of their lives with only $10 dollars to survive a date. Guy is from a super rich family but his dad has strict rules on him. So everyday he is only given $5. If he is going on a date, his dad gives him $10. So little money... they hardly went to the movies... never went for pool.. thankfully he owns a club membership..at least they can go for a swimming or tennis.

Guy has never given any expensive gifts to girl. Girl doesnt mind. Girl has many suitors.. but she still choose to be with guy...

Went through NS days... he can only book out on wkends... Girl always waits for him at the bus stop outside his camp... when he books in.. girl always send him back to camp...Girl had to walk quite a distance each time to get to camp...girl always travels alone to and fro from the camp... Girl remains faithful...

Guy finished NS...went to school..Girl was working then.... Guy kept complaining tat girl has no time for him... Girl no time cos she has to work full time.... Guy met new girls in school... Guy hangs out with new girl (bitch) often.... Girl still choose to trust tat they were friends even though they hang out almost everyday...

Guy's mum died quite a long time ago and left guy alot of $ which he can only take after 21 yrs old. Now guy is very rich. But guy and girl still live their frugal life....Guy told girl he is going for a school trip...Behind Girl's back, guy actually went to aussie with bitch. Whole trip was sponsored by guy. Total expenditure was 25k. How did girl find out about tis?

Girl wanted to use Guy's computer... Just nice.. Guy computer was on and the webpage was his email.. Girl saw all the emails with the mushy headings from bitch and some from the travel agency and credit card agency... Upset and curious..she click some of the mails...

Girl demanded a break up...Guy begged her to come back.... Guy kneeled down outside her home.... Guy said that no matter how long.. he will wait for girl to change her mind...

After 3 mnths, guy never turned up again...never contacted girl again...after 3 mnths, guy went steady with tat bitch... ...

this story is from someone i know of... sickening..

You know... ive already come to believe that when he says he loves you, its only for tat moment in time..... It doesnt mean that this statement will applie 20 yrs or more from now...

When he said that he is totally happy on the day u agreed to be his girl, this only applies to tat point of time and tat relationship only.... No one in this world can ever gurantee that this will be both your last relationship...






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