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Friday, August 11, 2006Y

Blog time is back. mY life not much happening things la. =X Apart frm the usual movie n shoppings...everything pretty much the same....


Well..something is weighing on my mind just now. Heard some news on sunday. Now it seems got a lil worse. Hai. Something beyond my control. No point feeling worried now. Actually im feeling a lot better.. just have to keep my mind off him and i know he is loved by everyone..he will be ok.... I will just love him as much as i can. =)

As usual.. my worrying habit...but im not as bad as b4 le.hurhur....

Was reading arnd internet portals... Found a few common bgr problems.

Educational Level differences.
The girl poly n Guy drop out off ite. Or Gal in NUS and guy in ITE. Well...in short, the girl holds a higher educational background.

sidetrack: Lim bu not that particular about educational status. Diploma certs are ok. Anyway..i still think the most important is that he is true to you , down to earth and able to take care of you.

And the cutest part is...parents OBJECT the relationship.

I guess..tats wat we will pretty much expect that.

All this while, we are somehow socially conditioned in a way that men shld have higher educational status and the higher ur educational status the more u earn so as to support the family.

But i feel now...Times has change..more n more women are better educated..Tats fact. Accept it. So hte tendency of a girl of higher educational status marrying a guy of lower educational status gets higher. Another thing we all have to face is that..In singapore..its more or less a paper chase. When u look for jobs, they look at ur degree or diploma.

From a certain angle, the parents are right. What they want is for hte best of their child. Who will want their daughter to marry some poor chap who hardly make enuff to survive on his own?

Pretty sad right. Two lovers torn apart becos of such thinking. But then again....the words of others affects ur relationship unless u allow them to.

I think the most important thing is tat this guy love u to bits and willing to strive better for his future. As long as he is down to earth, dotes you and able to prove that he can take care of you, i believe these are just good enough. The most beautiful part about being together is the ability to bring out hte best of each other.

When parents cant accept, all u and him need to do is just to gain their acceptence slowly. Dont push it. I always believe tat parents just want us to be happy and living well. As for girls, they would want some guy whom their daughters can depend on. Have faith. Fight together.

Yunhaier said this :When you love someone for who he/she is and love will evolve him/her and he/she will improve as your love deepens. If you look at one aspect in a person and chose the highest grade in that aspect, chances are, he/she will sacrifice other aspects of personality in exchange for this particular trait.

haha.. yeah man...If tat guy is worth ur love, go for it.

then againx...... differences in income will oso affect the relationship...then another round of troubles will arise...

hurhurhur..anyway...LIFE is FULL of problems. Accept it. Life without problems will be boring.


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